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Bikini trim (removing pubic
hair)
Shaving with a razor:
1. Start with a good razor with
a curved edge, like Bikini Plus. Don’t use a disposable razor!
The blades are cheaply made and will be too harsh for your sensitive skin.
Secondly, do this is a well-lit room. You must be able to see all
angles of your intimate area to be able to see and shave all the
hair you want to remove. Finally, you must not be shy about
touching yourself. You will get to know your intimate area intimately in
this process.
2. If this is your first shave, first cut
your pubic hair short with a scissors. You can’t shave long hair
with a razor.
3. Soften your skin and your pubic hair by taking a
hot bath or shower, or by pressing a hot washcloth on the area.
Keep your skin wet and add a softener to your hair. I like to use
hair conditioner to soften hair I want to shave. (This is a good tip for
your legs and underarms, too. I tried all brands of shaving foams
but I find hair conditioner to be the best preparation. The thing
I like best about using conditioner is that it does not clump up
in the razor’s blade.)
4. Hold the skin taut and shave in the same
direction as the hair’s growth. IGNORE ADVICE THAT TELLS YOU TO
SHAVE AGAINST THE GRAIN. Shaving against the direction of your
hair’s growth will hurt and will not make the shave any smoother. Smoothness comes from using a sharp razor. The skin in this area is
so delicate that I urge you to use a new razor every time you
shave.
5. If you use conditioner as your softener, you can shave
repeatedly over an area to get a close shave. Use short strokes
and be gentle. Pressure will not make a closer shave.
6. You can
decide how much you want to remove. If you’re shaving to please men, my
experience is that most men like a totally nude look. I also
found that it’s easier to shave totally than to maintain a
“Mohawk” or “landing strip” like you sometimes see in men’s magazine photos of naked women.
7. I like to apply aloe
afterwards to soothe the skin. I recommend Key West Aloe, which is 94% aloe. Go to www.keywestaloe.com to order. (I am not paid for
this endorsement, nor do I get any commission from them, nor do I
know anyone involved in the company. I do not own stock, nor have
I ever worked for them. I just love their product. It’s good for soothing any skin irritation.)
8. Some women need to use a
moisturizer to kept the skin soft after shaving, and some women
need to use a talc to keep the area dry after shaving. It all depends on
your environment (tropical? Arctic?) and the clothes you wear
(natural fibers? Synthetics? Tight panties?)
Waxing
your intimate area:
I don’t wax my intimate area; I shave.
Therefore, I cannot personally vouch for this section. I’m
passing on this information from my colleague who uses wax. In order for
your hair to be long enough to embed in the wax, it must be about
1/4 to 1/2 inch. That’s too long for me to wait, which is why I
shave.
1. Your hair will have to be dry and not softened in order
for the hair to embed in the wax. Therefore, don’t bathe or
shower or soften the skin or the hair.
2. As with any chemical
product that touches your skin, test a small area first to be sure you’re not allergic or that it’s not too caustic. Be sure to use a
wax specifically made for the bikini area.
3. Heat the wax
as instructed on the product’s label. The wax should be pliable
(mushy) but not thin (watery).
4. Make sure you skin is
completely clean – no softeners, no moisturizers, no lotions.
5.
Apply the wax in strokes that go in the same direction as the hair growth,
then pull it in the opposite direction of the hair growth. My
colleague says don’t pull it at a 90 degree angle – pull it more
like 180 degrees. (Who knew you need to know geometry to wax your
bikini area?) Repeat this until you’ve removed all the hair you want
to.
6. Remove any left over wax with a warm washcloth. My colleague
says you won’t need to treat the skin with Key West Aloe
afterwards. (That’s my second plug; see step 7 under “Shaving”
for information on my favorite skin product.)
7. A day or two after
the waxing, you’ll need to use a scrub of some kind to polish the area. It seems the waxing encourages your hair follicle roots to
close, which will increase your chances of ingrown hair. This
scrub will have to be abrasive, not gentle.
8. Don’t wear
restrictive clothing for two days after waxing. Too tight clothes will
trap moisture, which can also increase your chances of ingrown
hair.
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